What Is Anger?

Anger, like sadness, fear and disgust is an emotion and is hardwired into each of us through many, many years of evolution and, believe it or not, can serve a positive purpose. Like the emotion of anxiety, anger is part of our threat response and evolved primarily as a way of keeping us alive. Anger is part of our fight or flight response.

Fight or Flight is the term given to what happens in our bodies when a threat is present. If we identify something that we believe to be a threat to us, our body equips us with the physical resources so that we can fight the threat or flight (escape) from it. When we come across a threat that we believe will be too much for us to handle without injury, then we will experience anxiety and fear and escape from it.

However, when we experience a threat from which escape is not an option, either because it wouldn’t be possible or because to do so would result in some other negative consequence for us (for example, losing territory and resources or being pushed down the social hierarchy), then the anger emotion gives us the physical resources to become aggressive quickly. This was certainly an advantage for our ancestors – being able to stand your ground increased the likelihood of you surviving and getting the chance to mate – and so evolution selected for the ability to become angry.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy works by teaching you techniques and skill to challenge unhelpful thinking patterns and problem behaviours.

How do anger management problems happen?

So we understand that anger can serve a positive function for us, but why does anger become a problem? Why at certain times in our lives does anger seem like something that we don’t have control of?

A key part of anger management problems are the way that we think about our situations. If we consider that anger is part of our threat response, then we can start to think a little bit about what it is that we are thinking that makes us believe that certain situations are threatening to us. Also, we need to think about not just why these situations are threatening, but also about why they are the type of threat that we think is appropriate to fight, rather than flight.

The types of thoughts that typically lead to anger emotions are those in which we feel that our own needs are being transgressed in some way. In plainer English, angry thoughts are those in which we feel that people are taking advantage, dominating us or otherwise not respecting us in some way. In these cases, Anger activates Fight, which gives us all the physiological resources (increased heartrate, physical tension, faster breathing, tunnel vision) needed for us to engage in aggressive behaviour. Aggressive behaviour increases the likelihood of our needs being met.

However, certainly in modern times, aggressive behaviour can come with significant negative consequences. It can lead to violence, very often inappropriately, which can cost us our health, our relationships, our jobs or our freedom. So we need to start looking at our thoughts in more detail. This is where CBT anger management comes in.

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CBT for Anger Management

The main assumption in CBT is that it is our thoughts about ourselves, other people and the world around us that leads to our emotions, our behaviour and our physical sensations. When someone comes to therapy, we try to understand how they are thinking about events and work out whether how the are thinking is an accurate view.

Dealing with Anger Issues

As discussed above, in problem anger we often have the thoughts that people are disrespecting or beating us down in some way. For instance, using the common example of road rage, we might have the the thought, “he did that deliberately to me” in response to someone driving discourteously.

But of course, we don’t know why they drove the way that they did. They might just be a poor or a new driver. They might be anxious or worried about something and this is affecting their focus on the road. They might even be in a rush to see a loved one at the hospital. We just don’t know.

But in anger, as in many other emotions, we pay attention to the “negative automatic thought” and this is what creates the anger response. The truth is there may be a million other reasons why our other driver is driving discourteously – It doesn’t mean they’re doing out of disrespect for you.

So, in CBT we aim to train you to notice the type of thoughts that are present when you are angry, and then teach you how to consider alternative ways of thinking. As we do, the range of thinking increases beyond those just associated with threat and new, more neutral emotions become available.

Anger Management Thought Record

In addition to challenging our unhelpful thoughts, CBT for anger management also looks at the role that emotion, behaviour and physical sensations play in keeping your anger problem going.

We do this by breaking down the problem into parts and treating them one at a time, leading to improvement with the problem as a whole.

The diagram on the right – a 5 areas formulation – shows how we look at each of the areas of the problem in CBT.

So, let’s start with the emotion. Emotions can typically be defined in one word. “anger” is an emotion, but other related emotions may be “irritated”, “annoyed” or “frustrated”, etc. We’d write this in the “emotions” box.

Next, we want to think about all of the things that we experience in our body when we’re angry. What do you experience? As mentioned earlier, when we’re angry all of out fight or flight resources kick in and we’re full of adrenaline, our hearts pounding, breathing quickly and full of tension in our muscles.

We would treat these changes by using really simple techniques like controlled breathing, grounding or progressive muscle relaxation to lessen the sensations in our body that are telling our brains that we’re ready to fight.

Lastly, we have our “behaviours” box. This is where we will write all of the things that happen when we are angry. We might include things like shout, slam doors, hit people, throw things, or whatever it is that we do when the anger problem is there.

Please contact us for more information and help.

Anger Management Classes in Liverpool

Acess CBT is an organisation based in Liverpool but helps people all over the world with online therapy and Anger Management therapist resources. We work with people with all types of physical health problems and mental health difficulties. We offer professional strategies and services to improve mental well-being for short term goals and long term support.

We have expertise in CBT but also many other disciplines such as EMDR and ACT.

Feel free to contact us today to talk about appointments & sessions

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Online CBT Therapists

We offer professional online therapy via an appointment-based system to deal with a number of mental health issues and negative patterns. Our cognitive behavioural therapists are here to help you through your mental health journey. Once booked in we will set up a secure video link.

With one off or regular online therapy sessions a person can engage with their current problems and deal with their negative thoughts or difficulties with life experiences.

Feel free to contact us and a professional CBT therapist will get in contact with you to book an appointment.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do anger management problems happen?

So we understand that anger can serve a positive function for us, but why does anger become a problem? Why at certain times in our lives does anger seem like something that we don’t have control of?

A key part of anger management problems are the way that we think about our situations. If we consider that anger is part of our threat response, then we can start to think a little bit about what it is that we are thinking that makes us believe that certain situations are threatening to us. Also, we need to think about not just why these situations are threatening, but also about why they are the type of threat that we think is appropriate to fight, rather than flight.

The types of thoughts that typically lead to anger emotions are those in which we feel that our own needs are being transgressed in some way. In plainer English, angry thoughts are those in which we feel that people are taking advantage, dominating us or otherwise not respecting us in some way. In these cases, Anger activates Fight, which gives us all the physiological resources (increased heartrate, physical tension, faster breathing, tunnel vision) needed for us to engage in aggressive behaviour. Aggressive behaviour increases the likelihood of our needs being met.

However, certainly in modern times, aggressive behaviour can come with significant negative consequences. It can lead to violence, very often inappropriately, which can cost us our health, our relationships, our jobs or our freedom. So we need to start looking at our thoughts in more detail. This is where CBT anger management comes in.

CBT for Anger Management

CBT for emotion regulation typically consists of four different sets of treatment. Some adults only require one or two, while others need all four. CBT for emotional management emphasizes mindfulness. It teaches individuals to recognize their emotions before they get out of hand, allowing them to better manage or control them.

How is CBT different from traditional counselling?

The main assumption in CBT is that it is our thoughts about ourselves, other people and the world around us that leads to our emotions, our behaviour and our physical sensations. When someone comes to therapy, we try to understand how they are thinking about events and work out whether how the are thinking is an accurate view.

Dealing with Anger Issues

As discussed above, in problem anger we often have the thoughts that people are disrespecting or beating us down in some way. For instance, using the common example of road rage, we might have the the thought, “he did that deliberately to me” in response to someone driving discourteously.

But of course, we don’t know why they drove the way that they did. They might just be a poor or a new driver. They might be anxious or worried about something and this is affecting their focus on the road. They might even be in a rush to see a loved one at the hospital. We just don’t know.

But in anger, as in many other emotions, we pay attention to the “negative automatic thought” and this is what creates the anger response. The truth is there may be a million other reasons why our other driver is driving discourteously – It doesn’t mean they’re doing out of disrespect for you.

So, in CBT we aim to train you to notice the type of thoughts that are present when you are angry, and then teach you how to consider alternative ways of thinking. As we do, the range of thinking increases beyond those just associated with threat and new, more neutral emotions become available.

Anger Management Thought Record

In addition to challenging our unhelpful thoughts, CBT for anger management also looks at the role that emotion, behaviour and physical sensations play in keeping your anger problem going.

We do this by breaking down the problem into parts and treating them one at a time, leading to improvement with the problem as a whole.

The diagram on the right – a 5 areas formulation – shows how we look at each of the areas of the problem in CBT.

So, let’s start with the emotion. Emotions can typically be defined in one word. “anger” is an emotion, but other related emotions may be “irritated”, “annoyed” or “frustrated”, etc. We’d write this in the “emotions” box.

Next, we want to think about all of the things that we experience in our body when we’re angry. What do you experience? As mentioned earlier, when we’re angry all of out fight or flight resources kick in and we’re full of adrenaline, our hearts pounding, breathing quickly and full of tension in our muscles.

We would treat these changes by using really simple techniques like controlled breathing, grounding or progressive muscle relaxation to lessen the sensations in our body that are telling our brains that we’re ready to fight.

Lastly, we have our “behaviours” box. This is where we will write all of the things that happen when we are angry. We might include things like shout, slam doors, hit people, throw things, or whatever it is that we do when the anger problem is there.

Please contact us for more information and help.

Access CBT Clinic - Mental Health Professionals

Access CBT is an organisation based in Liverpool but helps people all over the world with online therapy and anger therapist wellbeing resources. We work with people with all types of physical health problems and mental health difficulties. We offer professional strategies and services to improve mental wellbeing for short term goals and long term support.

We have expertise in CBT but also many other disciplines such as EMDR and ACT.

Other Therapies in Liverpool

EMDR

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) in Liverpool, is a specialist type of psychotherapy that has been shown in clinical trials to be an effective treatment for Post-traumatic Stress Disorder and other trauma-related life problems.

ACT

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) in Liverpool– Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) is a “Third Wave” form of CBT and is the perfect alternative for people who have tried more traditional CBT (perhaps through an IAPT service) and have not achieved the desired results in their life.
If you want to discuss more about appointments or our service for CBT, EMDR or ACT feel free to contact us today.

CBT

CBT (Cognitive behavioural therapy) in Liverpool- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy CBT is a type of psychotherapy which aims to resolve problems of the patient by identifying and changing unhelpful patterns of thinking, feelings and behaviour.
If you want to discuss more about panic disorder support or our service for CBT, EMDR or ACT with a chartered clinical psychologist feel free to contact us today.

If you want to discuss more about appointments or our service for CBT, EMDR or ACT feel free to contact us today.

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